May 28
20110
commentsBy J Wilberg
In Social Development Commission
TagsCenter for Veterans Issues Thomas Wynn Tom Wynn Veterans Manor
Salute to Mr. Wynn
One of the great blessings of my professional life is that it started out in a frying pan. I didn’t have a slow ramp-up where everyone at my job spent time training me and helping me get my bearings by giving me insignificant work I couldn’t mess up. I started at the Social Development Commission and on the first day I was told to write a proposal for Tom Wynn.
Not the Tom Wynn you see in this picture. This picture (which I labeled Tom Wynn Nice) sure does look like him. Because he was handsome and he had a smile that could quiet down a very noisy room. The Tom Wynn I met on Day One at the Social Development Commission was the head of the National Association of Black Veterans and IVOCC (Interested Veterans of the Central City) and right from the jump, he was mad. Mad that what he’d asked for was help getting a proposal done and what he got was me. And mad at me because he assumed (rightly) that I was an ivory tower white girl who was against the Vietnam War and didn’t know anything about Black people.
That’s where our relationship started. But it got better. Over the years I did a lot of work for Tom Wynn, wrote a lot of proposals, did research on bad discharges and lack of access to services. He would be polite and friendly, courtly even, until he sensed resistence or lack of high priority, and then he would let me have it. And that’s where I learned a) to listen to an angry Black man without running away; and b) hold my own when I knew I was right.
Tom Wynn never really trusted me but he came to trust my skills – I guess that means he respected me. I certainly respected him. He was the first person I knew who lived his commitment to a cause every second of every day. He carried the problems of Black veterans on his back and for a long time did it almost all alone. He was fierce, that man. Fierce and insistent and undeterred.
At his retirement party in 2004, when everyone knew that he was dying, people lined up in front of the chair where he was sitting – to shake his hand and have a few words. When it was my turn, he gave me one of his Africa pins and we both at the same time, said “Thank you.” And he shot me one of those smiles. Like in the picture.
So — when I drive by 35th and Wisconsin Avenue, I look up at the brand new beautiful 52-unit Thomas H. Wynn, Sr., Veterans Manor for homeless veterans, and I think – what a good, wonderful thing that is. What a really fine salute to Mr. Wynn. And I think how lucky I was to have him as my drill instructor.

















